#1 Reason why people don't get the help they need...

The number one reason why people don't get the help they need, meaning, they don't allow it, they don't accept it, they sabotage it, is fear of being disappointed. The possibility of experiencng yet another thing that doesn't work for them is enough for the subconscious to find a way of sabotaging incoming help. The objective of the subconscious is to protect us from pain. If it can, as a part of you, take from you first, tear you down first, ridicule you first, then it can by default, protect you from somebody else having the opportunity to do it, which to the mind, is unbearable. It's a complex creature, but when understood, can be your best ally.