"Blame gives us permission to stay where we are while pressuring others to tiptoe around our wounds. Blame does not heal and it does not produce change; forgiveness does"
~C. Myss (excerpt from Sacred Contracts)
Free yourself. Forgive yourself and everyone involved. Often we carry un-forgivness, bitterness, resentment and anger because we are afraid that if if we let it go, we are somehow letting someone off the hook. You physically and emotionally incapacitate yourself when you do this and keep yourself literally chained to the incident(s) you feel wounded by.
It's a CHOICE to remain the victim when we CHOOSE not to forgive. You paid the price for it once, you don't need to pay the price over and over again.
Re-wild yourself and be free.
Awakened Health- Abundant Life